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The Talk

When the time came for Michael and Anita Holmes to consider moving into a senior living community, Michael knew it wouldn’t be easy convincing his wife of 15 years. At 65, Anita felt she was too young to live in a retirement community, and she still worked part time as a grant writer. But Michael, who had retired 12 years prior from his job as a history professor, felt isolated in their North Park, San Diego, community.

Anita ultimately agreed to move to White Sands La Jolla, but only after having some long talks.

The conversation about the future and potential long-term care needs can be agonizing for couples. It also can be especially awkward for adult children who must help their aging parents through the decision-making process. Still, it is worse to avoid these conversations altogether, says Lisa Holland, be.group’s regional director of quality improvement.

“Putting off that difficult conversation could mean having it during a crisis, when we typically don’t do our best thinking,” says Holland, a licensed clinical social worker.

Take a look at what “the talk” was like for the Holmeses and other be.group residents in the latest issue of be.magazine.

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A Place for the Guys

Since retiring more than 20 years ago from a career in sales, Ken Mallory has followed this tip from a close friend: Before you go to bed at night, make sure you have something in mind that you’re going to do the next morning. Mallory, who has lived at Royal Oaks with his wife Betty since 2008, has kept himself quite busy ever since.

Mallory and other be.group men discuss in the latest issue of be.magazine how they’ve carved out their own unique experiences in senior living communities.…

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The Big and Small of It

With their future health and the burden of caring for a big house on their minds, Walter and Donna van Dam realized they needed to begin a new chapter in their lives last spring. They decided it was time to pare down and move to a more manageable home.

In the latest issue of be.magazine, the van Dams and other be.group residents share how they were able to downsize with ease.…

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Working Class Heroes

It’s easy to blame a troubled economy for the record number of working adults 65 and older in this country—the highest level in nearly half a century. But that’s not the case.

The top reason why most seniors stay on the job is because they enjoy it, according to a survey by the American Psychological Association in Washington, D.C. And that’s true for countless be.group residents who continue to work 9 to 5 (and beyond). Check out their stories in the latest issue of be.magazine.

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Welcome to the New Normal

Making the actual physical move to Regents Point was the easy part for Midge Finley. The tough part came after the boxes were unpacked, furniture placed and pictures hung. For a self-described introvert, getting to know her new neighbors was the truly daunting task.

Check out how she and other be.group residents adjusted to community life and discovered the benefits of their new normal in the latest issue of be.magazine.

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Central Coast Tour—Wine Tasting and More

Royal Oaks Activities Director Janice Moist had this report to share from a recent trip up the coast by residents from Regents Point, Royal Oaks and White Sands La Jolla.

We headed out early Monday morning for our four-day excursion. Who would have thought that November could offer up such a clear and sunny day for our drive north? We couldn’t have asked for nicer weather.

Several residents specifically requested our driver Don, who looks just like Santa Claus with his white beard and twinkling blue eyes. Besides his resemblances to old St. Nick, Don is quite knowledgeable about California history and shared many interesting tidbits about the places we passed through on our journey north.  (And he’s an excellent driver.)

Our first stop was the Arts & Letters Café, a small, beautiful gallery with a garden restaurant. We enjoyed a nice lunch and a gallery of fine artwork by various contemporary American artists. Another highlight of our road trip was passing through the tiny town of Harmony. The town, with a total population of a whopping 11, has just a restaurant and shop that advertises wine tasting and hand-blown glass.

We arrived in Cambria by late afternoon to begin our excursion. On the next day, many of us were up early to see the morning sunrise. I tried to capture the beauty of the sunrise, expansive Pacific Ocean and rugged coastline, but my photography skills and camera were limited.

Later, we headed out for a tour of historic Hearst Castle, where we took in a day of many sights. We watched a documentary on William Randolph Hearst and his castle; some of us had a chance to go on a walking tour of the castle while the rest of us headed to Ragged Point. We also got a chance to see the enormous elephant seals at Piedras Blancas. According to our docent, the young seals we observed on the beach will grow to be 6,000 pounds.

During our final two days, we took in a lot of glorious sights and tours. We marveled at the long stretches of grand old oaks trees along the California hills. We enjoyed wine tasting at Castoro Cellars, a certified organic vintner in Templeton. We visited Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo for a quick tour (narrated by yours truly, a Cal Poly grad). In Solvang, some of us wandered through quaint Danish-themed shops and bakeries while the rest traveled to a nearby casino.  A few won more than $100, but all had a good time.

The final highlight of our trip was meeting Monty Roberts, the original Horse

Whisperer and horse trainer to the Queen of England. He owns the Flag Is Up Horse Training Facility  in Solvang. His daughter and one of their top trainers gave us a terrific tour of the ranch and even demonstrated some of Roberts’ unique, non-violent techniques with a handsome Palomino horse named Trigger.

It was a great way to bring our trip to a close as we headed home.…

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